Before we begin.

Everyone is different.
That should be common knowledge at this point in everyone's life.
From how we see ourselves to personality to what we like to eat and feel.

I have discovered, through my travels and friends and work people. Sex is a very... controversial word, which in my opinion is sad.

If you want to go off of evolution or religion, either or will work.
Humans are here for pretty much 1 reason. Procreation.
Of course over the years we have kinda gone off course a bit.

From trying to make life easier, making things bigger and better. Bringing new ideas to life, and fighting for those ideas. War, death, destruction, recreation.

We are born with some of this ingrained in our genes, and others get placed into our mind over the years, through home life and social life. However, we all know one thing. We do not want to be alone.

Everyone craves a connection. We initially want a human connection, and depending on how our life is, we can get it pretty easily. Of course if things happen that cause us to not get it.

Born into a family that is broken is a main cause.  Whether it breaks after you are born or was already broken, you will crave feeling another person touching you. In any way, by paying for it, being paid for it, or just jumping from bed to bed. Searching for someone to fill that void that you have never gotten.

There is also the other side of things. The people those are born into a "perfect" family. Filled with love and attention. Only, the parents shelter their children from the ways of life. Not even allowing them to date till they are 18.

The main person who inspired my ranting is a very close friend. She was one of the sheltered. Her only interaction with men other then talking to them is reading about them in books.
She married a guy who is, like all men, very enthusiastic about sex. She is not. I am hoping that her reading this will help her out.