Since we are on the topic of pleasing ones self.
Lets look into a few things that can help push it along.
Obviously the first tool is getting yourself in the mood.
Whether it is by reading erotica, watching video clips or movies, or using your own imagination.
By this point in your life, I would hope you know what can get you in the mood.
From soft core, to hard core, girl on girl, boy on boy, three ways, orgies, S&M, beastiality ect.
Personally, mine varies day to day, depending on what I am feeling. I start out at soft core, but that barely gets my heart pounding, going to some dirty three ways or S&M. My mind has yet to reach the animal stage, but that is where I drew my line. Personally, animals and defecation do not get my heart going all RAWR. However I am not mocking anyone who does, to each his own.
After you figure out the thing(s) that make you all gooey, you need to find your tools of the trade.
The best tool in the world, will always be your hand. Good old righty or lefty.
After asking around to friends, I have discovered a few objects that many people use, from items just around your home.
-Vibrating toothbrush (most common)
-Vibrating shavers (I would be scared to try)
-Shower heads.
-Textured cloths.
-Hair brush handles.
-Ice cubes.
-Silk clothing.(Smooth and silky clothes are so amazing!)
-Socks.
-Stuffed animals.
-Certain types of veggies. (cucumbers, beware of carrots, they can actually puncture through the vaginal wall and cause internal bleeding.)
-EOS lipbalm (They are shaped like sex toys lol)
And so on.
As you can tell, there are many things around the home that are free that you can use for your sexy fun times with yourself.
Also, lubes or lube like products would be awesome, especially for men.
Hand creams and some of the more sticky lubes can start to do this really gross dried skin ball effect going on. *Shudder* Anyways, if you are going to use hand lotion, use lots and don't use a heavy, sticky lotion, get a nice, light water based one. Same goes for lube. If it is just you time, you do not need a flavored one, or a sticky one.
For personal times, or when I am playing with my partner, I like to use JO Agape or Pjur Woman, flavorless ones that again, are purely for hands and toys. The best thing about the internet now a days, if you do not like going into sex shops, or have not found one that is clean and the shop keepers are not helpful, you can go online.
They have all the products you could ever need, shipped in discrete packages, as long as you do not mind waiting the so many days for the products.
I have 3 different sex shops that I love going to. The workers are so nice and able to answer any question that I have.
Now, that we have done free toys and lubricants, lets go into the paid toys.
Starting with men.
Flesh lights, realistic asses/vagina, blowup dolls, even blowjob imitators! They have found so many wonderful ways to imitate female and male body parts and make them convenient and even travel size for the traveling man
A few years ago, the TENGA was the top sex toy in Japan, It looks really funny, but apparently feels amazing.
I don't know about you, but I have always wondered what it felt like to have a penis. I guess you could call it penis envy, I am going to call it penis curiosity. I just always wondered what it would feel like to have something warm and slightly tight wrapped around me. Mmm...
Anyways, on to female toys.
The dildo or vibrating dildo are on the top list for alot of women.
I personally, do not like them much. I prefer the real thing inside me vs an imitation.
I do however Adore little hand vibrators. RAWR!
They can fit in your purse or pocket, are very quiet, most are waterproof and can be very powerful!
In about 2-5 minutes you will be cumming your cares away.
This one site I use quite often, http://www.sex-toys-canada.com/vibrator.aspx not only has pretty much every toy available, for both men and woman and couples, but also gives a great little description so you know pretty much exactly what you are paying for and getting.
From hand vibrators, DP(duel penitration) vibrators & strap-ons, waterproof vibrators, vibrating panties and even vibrating ducks for the bath and shower!
What ever will float your boat and get you flying for the beginning of the morning, a pick me up in the afternoon or something to calm you down just before bed, you can get the most out of any toy or website.
TIP: If you drive to work, or do not mind doing it in the bathroom or your office, a quickie with yourself, your hand or your little pocket friend, it really can help get rid of a lot of stress in the day. Just remember, if you are in a public area, bite your lip, noise is only for in the vehicle or at home, you don't want to be known as that person.
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